How To Gain Right Perspective In Life.

How To Gain Right Perspective In Life.

Hello friends! 

 You must be wondering about the subject I choose to speak about today. You must be thinking, " Is this going to help me in anyway?"

The answer is - "Absolutely yes!"

 This subject or topic I chose to write on is one of the most crucial subject. Your life and how you live it totally depend on your perspective. You may find this a bit surprising or confusing but that's the truth.

 Before beginning to understand on how to gain right perspective, you need to understand following important questions:

What does perspective mean?
 How does it matter to you?

What does Perspective mean ? 

  If you wish to understand the literal meaning of the word 'perspective', it means 'point of view'. But there is more to it that meets your understanding. You make many big and small decisions throughout your life which decides the direction of your life. You make decisions for all aspects of your life. While doing so, you adopt a certain way of thinking which in turn become your point of view. Any subject presented to you, you mind is programmed to react in a pattern based entirely on your perspective. May it be politics, sports, social life, celebrities, you will always have a opinion based on your point on view i.e., your perspective.

How does it matter to you ?

  As your grow up, your mind is observing many things happening around you. Your personality, your morals and your understanding of the situations happening around you shape your perspective. Morals have to play to major role in your perspective. All the opinion you share publicly or on social media shows your perspective towards the situation and displays your moral values of your core. To share an example, if you support a political leader with a criminal history of murder and violence, then your morals are not right. Whatever reasons you give yourself to believe in the leader, you reflect a bad moral value. 

I will give you one more example, a different one. A highly educated person I know avoided moving to abroad to a better country for a better life just because the person felt that the spouse will not have a good job opportunity over there. Now after wasting 8 years based on improper information the person had it in the first place, his perspective changed after getting right information and regrets for his previous decision. 

In the first example, you can see how perspective displays your moral values. On the other hand, in second example shows how a perspective based on improper information wasted precious time of the person. I am sure you can find many examples around you or experiences of your life which went wrong due to a perspective. 

Hence a perspective plays a major role in shaping your decisions which in turn shapes the direction of your life. Nobody is a failure. It's just a wrong perspective which is consuming their time and keeping them away from their desired success. 

I feel I have been successful in establishing the importance of perspective. Now I will proceed to explaining the most important aspect of this subject, that is "How to gain right perspective in life."

Solution to gain right perspective in life.

 Perspective is undoubtedly linked to your moral values. The more your morals are twisted, chance of perspective going wrong will increase. This is also coupled with your approach to achieve things and understanding of the situation. Your personality which includes your ability to handle fear, greed and quickness in taking action is very important. These all parameters will shape your perspective. For every person for every decisions he or she makes, the perspective will be different.

Firstly you have to strengthen your morals to make your perspective right. To have good morals, I suggest five simple rules which had been suggested already by a great human being hundreds of years back. I am just following him and I find it effective so I am sharing it with you.

-Abstinence from lying.

-Abstinence from alcohol/substance abuse/drugs/smoking.

-Abstinence from sexual immorality.

-Abstinence from stealing.

-Abstinence from killing.

These virtues if followed correctly will bring good change in you and will guide you to be righteous in decisions you make and perspective you have. 

 Secondly you have to understand and accept one important thing. YOUR OPINION IS NEVER THE RIGHT ONE UNLESS IT GIVES YOU TRUE HAPPINESS AND PEACE OF MIND. Do not cling to the opinion so much that it turns into a adamant and wrong perspective. Whenever you discuss something with your friends or family always keep your mind open towards their perspective. This will not only give you opportunity to make your perspective right but also will strengthen your relations. Don't accept their perspective to please them. Also don't emphasize or force your perspective on others. If you emphasize or force your perspective on others, then you will get a false sense of pseudo self-righteousness and your ego will flare up.  So don't do it. 

Lastly, do not let your emotions decide your perspective. Let your rationality decide it. Also remember this is an ever-changing process. So a perspective you find right today may not right afterwards. Let your mind explore the possibilities until you arrive on the right perspective based on your rationality, morals and personality. 

The entire point of this blog is to make everyone aware that happiness and peace of mind is most important in life. All of us, we seek our happiness and peace of mind in money or in a place or in food or in people. It is never in all these, it is always within you. No need to search. Just relax and breath and you will find it right within you. This is a perspective of my life. What is your perspective? Write it below in the comments section. I will be happy to learn from you. Peace!

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