How Problems Arise In Life?



How Problems Arise In Life?

This question had been asked by every one of you at some point in your lives. This is not a new topic to talk about but surely a question whose answer is still searched by you. I assume you still have not found any sure answer. Don't worry my friend! I am here to answer you exactly how a problem arises in your life.

First you must understand the reason behind how exactly it occurs. In my previous blog, I have elaborated about how your reactions generates emotions or feelings which leads to certain actions and eventually to consequences which you desire or not.

You can find the link below. Go read it to understand this topic better:

How problem manifests in life:

You like it or not, problems are integral part of life. They come and go but never go away for sure. You never know what problem is hiding to shock you on the next turn. 
The only reason problems arise in life is your reactions to people and situations happening around you constantly. Nothing else is responsible. We humans are very self-centered, egoistic and do not easily accept that everything happening in our lives is only because of us and no one else. We blame 'faith', 'ghost', some 'heavenly superior power', 'god', but will never accept the fact that the consequences we are facing is only because of our actions which in turn was totally based on our reaction to the situation or the person in the first place.
By far, hopefully, I am successful in establishing the root cause of problem in your life. Understanding how a problem arises in life resolves half of the problem itself. The answer lies in understanding the intricate detail of its root cause. Every person reacts differently to different situations and the outcome of the reaction given will decide on the consequence.
For instance, a person who is always in need of money suddenly get a huge sum of money. What will he/she do with that amount of money? Obviously, he/she will end up spending the money on their wishes pending to be fulfilled due to lack of money. Most of the people who win lotteries end up where they started before winning the lottery. Even all the money does not help. What do you learn from this example. The eagerness to fulfill the desires after the money is gained leads to consequences explained above. After certain period of time the outcome or consequence is poverty again. 
One more example will help you understand it in more better manner.
 For instance, imagine a husband and wife are arguing over some matter. Husband says something which offends the wife and she says something back and on goes the argument. They both loose the point where the argument started. The argument may escalate to levels hazardous for relationships. They end up stressing the relationship. The reactions given by both can lead to bad consequences. The bad consequences may end up with separation. 
So, now you hopefully understand that your reaction to situations, words said by others and to people is the deciding factor on how things will lead to good or bad consequences. I am sorry to burst your bubble that the problems in your life is not because of some bad time, god or any negative vibe. Its just your reactions. Nothing more, nothing less. Every moment you have to react to each and every thing around you and take decisions accordingly. Not all decisions are perfect and all of us end up with some or the other problem in our lives. 
As i said earlier understand how a problem manifests in life will give you insight on how to avoid it in first place. I have one blog on how to avoid any problem. Check out the link below:

 How to avoid a problem!

 In this above mentioned article you will find ideas on how to avoid a problem in the first place. I know it is extremely difficult to control your reactions and many a times your emotions explode. It's OK! With practice you will realize that you can bring your reaction under control. I am strictly not asking you to suppress your reactions. Don't suppress your reactions at all. There is a difference in controlling reactions and suppressing it. 
Hope my blog help you to understand your problems and to control your reactions effectively. This will  guide you in a better manner in making your life filled with happiness, peace and very few problems. Kindly feel free to ask any queries in the comments below. Peace!

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